How would a super nanny get children to do chores?   Simple.  Instead of ordering your child to do something, like empty the trash and then nag and nag until it’s done, use a different approach.  Place the responsibility and units of concern onto the child instead of your being so concerned about it.  How do you do this?

Tell the child he or she can do an activity he or she wants to do as soon as the trash is taken out.  There is no TV, game boy, talking on the phone, eating snacks or playing outside until the chore is done.  Tell your child to take as much time as he or she needs and to let you know when it’s done so you can check it.  Then, calmly walk away, like the super nanny your are.  Don’t say anything else.

If your child ignores you and starts to do something else he or she wants to do, stop it calmly, reminding them you’ll be happy to have them do that activity they desire as soon as the chore is completed.  A super nanny remains calm and follows through, holding the child responsible instead of getting upset.  Try it and let me know how it works for you.  It’s easier to do and takes less time than nagging.

MaryLynne White

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