One of the characteristics of successful parents is their ability to look at the positive things their children do.  They understand the importance of giving their children positive feedback as much as possible.  If children are hearing mostly negative comments from their parents instead of positive ones, they don’t feel encouraged to do their best; “why bother”, might be their attitude.

Successful parenting involves the use of excitement and ‘pizzaz’ when you catch your child doing something right.  If you have a child that argues often, and you’ve had some conversations without arguing, mention it to your child. “I noticed you and I have gone for an hour with out arguing.  That’s fantastic!  Keep up the good work!”

Children love computer games and game boys because they get immediate feedback.  The more positive things you can acknowledge in your child, the more likely he or she will be to continue doing them.

Whatever you focus on persists.  Are you giving your child positives or negatives?  Think about it.  Successful parenting styles can be learned with a few changes here and there.

MaryLynne White

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