Last Spring, the Today Show presented a segment on The Co-Parenting Survival Guide.  This book advises parents on how to let go of conflict and do what's best for the kids.  It was written by psychologists Elizabeth Thayer and Jeffrey Zimmerman.  You can read an excerpt from the book by going to

http://msnbc.msn.com/id/7475814/

Going through a divorce is especially difficult when there are children.  Successful parents are able to keep their negative feelings to themselves around the children so the children don't get caught up in the cross fire between their parents.

Children have enough feelings of insecurity when a family disrupts.  They need to know their parents still love them.  When they sense a parent is angry, they may think its at them even though it isn't.