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View Article  Nurturing Your Child through Touch

The entry posted before this one discusses why touch is imprortant for all children, regardless of age.  here are some ideas to increase touch between parent and child in nurturing ways:

1.  Hold and cuddle your child every day.

2.  Tuck your child in at night with a hug and kiss good night.

3.  Hold hands while walking.

4.  Play a clapping game.

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View Article  Engagement Activity: Talk and Rock

Talk and Rock

This is a good after school activity between parent and child.  Both of you are sitting on the floor, facing each other, with your legs like a "v".  You're holding hands.  gently, rock back and forth, front to back while the parent asks questions about the child's day.  Maintain a slow rythmn and quiet, calm tone and see what happens.  This is also a nurturing and structuring activity as well.

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View Article  Engagement Activity: Marshmallow Fight

Marshmallow Fight

This is a great way to deal with an angry child.  Get a bag of large marshmallows and surpise your child by throwing some of them at him or her.  Usually, a child will pick them up and throw them back at you with a smiling face.  Its a great way to burn off angry feelings and have fun at the same time.

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View Article  Engagament Activity: Maintaining Eye Contact

Maintaining Eye Contact

If you have a positive interaction with your child, it increases the chances for healthy attachment.  Make a game of it by having you and your child standing across the room from each other.  You count slowly to five.  If your child maintains ete contact that whole time, he or she gets to walk toward you by taking two steps. If your child has trouble maintaining eye contact, use the blinking method.  When you blink once, the child can take another step; if you blink twice, the child can take two steps foward.

 

The game ends when the child reaches you.  You can end it with lots of pizzaz and a hug for doing such a great job of looking you in the eye.

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View Article  Engagement Activity: Mirroring

Mirroring Activity

Stand or sit facing your child.  The parent begins by making a face and then having the child copy it; acting as a mirror.  Do this a few times, and then let your child lead.  You can then move your torse, arms, legs, etc.

Bear Hug

If your child has a small stuffed teddy bear or other animal, getit and hug it close.  Then, hand it to your child to see if he or she hugs it.  Ask for the animal back; give it another hug, and return it.  End this simple game with a hug for your child and stuffed animal together.

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