Do you have a child that constantly defies your parental control, gets angry easily and tends to blame others for his or her actions, instead of taking responsibility?  If so, you have a child that is stuck developmentally in his or her emotional development.  This type of behavior usually occurs when a child is between two and three years of age. There's a real resentment toward pereived authority.  in the child's attempt to become more indeopendent, he wants to do it his way.

For the frustrated parent, dealing this angry behavior, a couple of suggestions for you to consider:

First, how often do you truly acknowledge all the positive things your childe says and does?  You catch more bees with honey than with vinegar.  It could be somehting as simploe as, "I see you ready for school on time today."  I noticed you put your clothes aqwaqy last night."  I don't care how old your child is, when he or she shows oppositional behavior, you're dealigt with a two year old.  Guess what?  Two years olds crave attention!

Second, instead of telling your child what to do, issuing orders, give her a choice. "Honey do you want to do your chore before dinner or after dinner/"  If you get an answer, that's a good thing.  Throw out another question;  If you're going to do it after dinner, will it be done right after dinner or by 8pm?  Each time the child answers, she has a vested interest in doing what she says she's going to do.  Giving her choices leads her to completing the task.  Even though it may be within your guidelines, she freelsw like she's in control.  Try it and let me know how it works for you.http